Okay, we have already read about Mom and Dad’s first date. After an evening of dancing, Dad asked Mom out on a date and then promptly stood her up. Well, I have been reading some of Mom and Dad’s love letters they wrote to each other in the two years before they were married. And some interesting details can be gleaned.
On June 24, 1953 Mom wrote to Dad that “last Saturday” was their sixth month anniversary. By using a perpetual calendar, I can calculate that their first date was right around December, 20, 1952. That would have been a Saturday.
Now, if you use a little conjecture and Mom’s recollections about how they met, then we can guess that they first went out dancing with a group around the first week of December. Give Dad a week or two to stand up Mom and then regain her favor, and you have a first date on December 20, during the Christmas holidays.
As I read these letters I gain some new insight into Mom and Dad. They have become more than these two people that worked so hard to give me a good life. They enjoyed movies, going out, drinking beer, and sharing the company of each other. They really had a beautiful life.