As I investigate Ruth Harman, questions that continue to arise include: what she thought and how she felt. An important question: how did she develop such a strong Catholic faith? Raised a Methodist; her father a minister, yet the entire family remembers her as deeply faithful to the Catholic Church. It must have been difficult to move away from the faith of her family and accept Catholicism. An important question if we want to fully appreciate Grandma and her life: How did she reach such faith in the Catholic Church?
It should also be noted that her faith didn’t go unrewarded and her faith inspired others. Mary Jane Hislop (Mom) attributes one specific miracle to Grandma’s faith: When just a few months old Micki, my older sister, suffered from a blockage. Her stomach became blocked or her intestine was twisted, or something. The doctors wanted to operate. Micki hadn’t been baptized yet. Doctors gave her low odds of survival. Grandma insisted that a Catholic priest come into the hospital and baptize Micki before the surgery. Sometime between the priest coming in and the scheduled surgery the blockage healed itself. Mom knew divine intervention healed her baby through Grandma’s intervention.
Grandma’s strong Catholic faith included the education of her children. When the family could afford the tuition, each of Grandma’s children went to private Catholic schools. The apocryphal story concerns Uncle Pat, who was expelled from the Catholic School by the nuns because he kept spitting on the floor. This same son later studied for the priesthood.
At her funeral, Dad proudly noted, three priests participated in Grandma's funeral mass.
Obviously, Grandma Ruth Harman Brubaker was very Catholic. She came from a Methodist family and married into a Catholic family. How did she arrive at her faith? Why did she hold such a strong faith? These are interesting questions with no easy answers.